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Cecily and Lily's Mom and Me Tea
See Also:
Cecily and Lily's Mom
and Me Tea
Tea for Two at the Willows
When the school year is new and your child is in a class with children your child does not know and parents you are unfamiliar with, what is a mom to do? Throw a Mom and Me Tea!
That's what Cecily Butterworth decided to do.
Cecily and Lily invited the little girls in Mrs. Lovchuk's K-5 Class at Holy Nativity. Lily's class has only 5 little girls and they were all invited. Unfortunately, Gracie Mae Hundley had to attend a football game with her parents (this is the South and football season!) and Rachel McDaniel was not well enough yet to come, but Rita Levine and Marlie Ann Feitz and moms Marina and Julie were able to join Cecily and Lily Butterworth for Tea at the Willows.
The little girls gathered shyly. Then the tea was served. Herbal tea was fine...but Lily has learned the wonders of English Breakfast in going "to tea" with her Grandmother "Mimi". She showed her new friends the finer art of pouring cream and adding sugar to the tea to get it at the sweet, creamy level acceptable to a young (very young) lady. Add scones with strawberry preserves and cream to taste plus a big slice of chocolate cake and suddenly you have giggling, happy girls (and moms). Throw in a boa to dress up with and a fine big hat to preen in and you have a photo opportunity. With their little girls within arms distance having fun, the moms had a chance to visit and bond as well. (Motherhood can be a lonely, isolating job, without friends to share it with. [comment by Grandmother Mimi...one who has been there].)
As the grandmother, I was privileged to attend the event at the invitation of my oldest daughter, the mother of our only grandchild. There is no greater joy than seeing your children happy, with friends whose parents you know and trust. Our lives are so busy. I remember when I was that age, I met mothers while watching my children at the Swimming Club to which we belonged. Now with busy lives and private pools, it isn't as easy. Julie Feitz suggested they take turns hosting "a tea". I discovered in my own life how important it is to "schedule time" for your friends. My mother-in-law set the example with her group of 10 friends with whom she had lunch weekly for 43 years, until she passed away. The "group" with a few new members continues to meet monthly, taking turns hosting the "group." I took my mother-in-law's example and have started such a group in Dothan (our official residence) and in Panama City (where we spend almost half of every week). Making time to establish and nurture friendship enriches life and is truly worthwhile.
I am sure the little girls would concur and these sweet mothers will surely benefit from the friendships.
I am proud of my daughter for setting such a good example for my granddaughter.
By the way, Rachel McDaniel is
the granddaughter of one of the members of our Dothan OTL (Out to Lunch Bunch),
Jean McDaniel (Mrs. Ronnie McDaniel). Rachel is ill and was unable to make the "tea" but our thoughts and prayers are
with her and we look forward to her and her mother joining this group.
Cecily and Lily saved a boa specially for her. For more on Rachel visit:
http://www.caringbridge.org/